Have you ever had someone walk in a room and suddenly there’s silence? Have you ever conversed with someone and found them absolutely spellbinding? I have. A lot of this has to do with the “resonance” people like these possess. A personal magnetism.

Now what do I mean by “resonance”? It really has to do with one’s total being… his or her presence. Their energy. And other characteristics too… all that constitute, project, amplify “resonance” to others:Your Dress. Grooming. Eye Contact. Your Gait. Your hand movements. Your Posture. Your Facial expression. Your Conversation style:

More questions than answers. Listening. Exploring another’s comments once made. You’re Humility. Little or no name dropping. Interest in others. You’re Confidence. Your Curiosity. Your Spirit.

Think this gives you an idea. Whether it be a swagger or a quiet presence. One’s resonance, your resonance generates an energy that can connect… even attract you to others.

So think about someone you’ve met who captured you immediately. Someone who maybe made you feel a bit honored to be in their presence. What is it about them that makes them different… even special. They are the bright lights that brighten others.

Consider the characteristics above. What do you believe your“resonance” is day to day. “Resonance” something we can emulate.